I don’t understand the disconnect between men saying there aren’t any good women and women saying there aren’t any good men. Good guys and good girls keep claiming that they’re getting screwed over by the wrong type of person, but my thing is, if there are so many good men and good women, why aren’t they finding each other? I have some theories about this: either the girls are lying, the guys are lying, or people don’t want a good man or woman.
If there were really as many good men and good women as people claim, they would eventually pair off, have good relationships that turn into good marriages, and have good babies. But that’s not happening. So many “good” women and men are either staying single or ending up with “bad” men or women who lie, cheat, and break the hearts of these “good” people, which eventually leaves them jaded and skeptical of the next man or woman. If we attract people like us, then all the people that claim to be “good” should attract good people.
Or, maybe you’re the type of person who claims you want a good man or woman, but then you find yourself attracted to the “bad” boys and girls. If you really wanted a good relationship with a “good” person, you wouldn’t find yourself attracted to the ones who don’t bring you anything but heartache and pain.
My point is, there’s some truth to the whole “tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are” thing. Look at who you surround yourself with and maybe that will answer your question as to why you only attract the “wrong” kind of person.